Autumn Newsletter

As Soft as a Baby’s Bottom

Editorial: focus on diapers

Among the many choices facing new parents, how to clothe your baby’s behind might not be top of the list. There are bigger concerns than whether fabric or paper envelops your baby’s bottom. And what about that third choice—diaper free? While this might not be your loftiest parenting concern, it is nonetheless among the decisions new parents must face. But don’t despair. We’re here to help.

Despite what you may imagine before your little one arrives, diapering is not always all chore. It can also be a fun moment of communication and play, as you frequently end up face to face with your little one, engaged and connected. Diapering can also be a time for tummy kisses, massage, peek-a-boo, and playing wheels-on-the-bus with your baby’s feet, or this little piggy with baby’s toes. This can also be a moment of ludicrous shenanigans, when baby learns to roll over and crawl, and can no longer abide lying still for thirty seconds. Here, too, your relationship expands, as you rise to new and creative strategies to keep your little dervish entertained until the deed is done. 

Every parent also has a story or two of their precious darling letting loose the moment the diaper was removed, as if the fresh air on tender parts were an invitation to spray the room. And what parent hasn’t just adorned their little one in fresh and clean apparel, only to have the new linens trigger the excremental explosion of the week. Diapering can invoke tender moments of parent/baby connection, but it can also prompt moments of farcical frustration.

In this issue we explore the four options for enrobing your little one’s derriere: Disposables, Cloth with a diaper service, Cloth with wash-at-home, and Diaper Free. Read some useful tips, some first-hand accounts, and some expert opinions. 

Happy diapering…no matter how you roll or fold.


In this Issue:

 News & Announcements

ONLINE CLASSES!

We are delighted to be able to offer all of our inspiring, empowering classes online via zoom! Experience our high-quality classes from the comfort and safety of your own home. The classes are taught live, in real time, with interactive programming, and opportunities for questions and making social connections. Even after regular, in-person programming resumes, we will continue to run a selection of classes online. Check out the schedule on our website and register today!

LIVE CLASSES!

We are aiming for September for our gradual re-launch into live, in-person, on-site classes. Our inaugural live class will be the Fall 3 Series. We will limit the size to 5 registrations. Note that if the health and safety guidelines revert between now and then, we will switch this class to zoom.

POSTPARTUM CIRCLES FREE OR BY DONATION

Social distancing is very hard on new parents. For the duration, the childbearing society invites you to join us for postpartum circles every Monday from 12:30 – 2pm (except holidays). Instructors are facilitating these friendly, informative circles on a volunteer basis. You are welcome to attend for FREE, or by donation. To pay by donation, click here. Open to anyone with a baby or expecting a baby. See our schedule of topics here, and simply click on the zoom link at 12:25 to join.

Rent our Space!

Our cozy & comfortable studio space is available for rent when we’re not using it. To learn more about renting, click here.

Black Lives Matter

On our website, we will be doing our best to post up-to-date links, information, and donation options for supporting people of colour. We aim to amplify black voices and will be using this page to do so. Please read through the information below to learn more about disparities in healthcare and more specifically how birthing spaces affect black people and their babies and families. Then, donate through the numerous organizations we’ve linked to below and pledge to do more. Share this page to make it easy for your friends to learn more, do more, and take the burden off of the BIPOC people in your lives from having to explain their experiences.

Birth work is political & racial disparities in healthcare exist and are prevalent today. Black women experience added barriers and obstacles to accessing healthcare, prenatal care, and end up with worse outcomes.

One of the reasons that racism persists in Canada is because our commitment to the perception of racial tolerance and harmony seems to be prized above the actual lived experiences of people.

-Author Robyn Maynard on Anti-Black Racism, Misogyny, and Policing in Canada