The Pregnant Body

The Childbearing Society Summer Newsletter 2020

Editorial

A lot has changed since our March 1st newsletter! What a strange time to be pregnant. What a strange time to become a parent!

Mostly at home, mostly less busy, many of us will spend more time contemplating this pregnancy than we might have under usual circumstances. When we are pregnant, our focus often dwells on the discomforts and deprivations associated with the condition: Our aching back, our puffy ankles, our cravings for cabernet, or camembert. Sometimes we look down on our swollen belly, our stretch marks, our sore calves with bemusement or even antipathy. How did I get like this? Can this really be my body?

The pregnant body seems to have a mind and will of its own. It infuses us with a unique incursion of hormones that alters our physiology: our shape, our circulation, our very constitution. Our body expands and morphs to accommodate the pregnancy, shifting in shape and texture before our eyes and under our fingertips. No part of us is immune to alteration: our skin, our brain, our hair, our thirst, our feet, our breasts, our appetites, our energy, our libido, our joints and muscles, our moods, and of course our ever-expanding belly. Do we even recognize ourselves within this altered body? Have we been taken over, reformed, according to our tenant’s specifications? 

In some eras the pregnant body has been revered as the most beautiful womanly shape, an ideal form of femininity radiating fertility, maternity, strength, and good health. Here, many of us experience more ambivalence about our pregnant contours, maybe mourning the loss of our waistlines or the sight of our own feet. It’s common to feel impatient with our breathless fatigue on short walks, our struggle to heave our girth off a sofa, our inability to squeeze into our favourite clothes. Do we luxuriate in our pregnant form, admiring our new curves, and appreciating our new assets? Or do we count the days until we can recognize our ‘normal’ self in the mirror? 

Despite our uncertain feelings about inhabiting this temporary body, we know that it provides a medium for our growing progeny. As strange and unfamiliar as we may feel about it, our body is, quite literally, essential to our baby. The pregnant body’s changes, fluctuations, and bizarre new habits are all helping baby form and develop. It is an enormous feat, growing, cultivating, and nourishing a whole new human being; It is not to be undervalued. The pregnant body is a body of transition; a miracle of nature, an achievement of evolution, a non-illusive magic trick. From one of you, to two of you: A whole new human emerges.  

In this issue we look at some common pregnant body considerations: fatigue, discomforts, exercise, nutrition, and the role of the partner. Even though this edition dwells on the mundane effects of the pregnant body, we ultimately want to acknowledge the incredible result of the pregnant body: it grows a brand-new person. Wow!


In this Issue:

 News & Announcements

ONLINE CLASSES!

We are delighted to be able to offer all of our inspiring, empowering classes online via zoom! Experience our high-quality classes from the comfort and safety of your own home. The classes are taught live, in real time, with interactive programming, and opportunities for questions and making social connections. Even after regular, in-person programming resumes, we will continue to run a selection of classes online. Check out the schedule on our website and register today!

LIVE CLASSES!

We are aiming for September for our gradual re-launch into live, in-person, on-site classes. Our inaugural live class will be the Fall 3 Series. We will limit the size to 5 registrations. Note that if the health and safety guidelines revert between now and then, we will switch this class to zoom.

POSTPARTUM CIRCLES FREE OR BY DONATION

Social distancing is very hard on new parents. For the duration, the childbearing society invites you to join us for postpartum circles every Monday from 12:30 – 2pm (except holidays). Instructors are facilitating these friendly, informative circles on a volunteer basis. You are welcome to attend for FREE, or by donation. To pay by donation, click here. Open to anyone with a baby or expecting a baby. See our schedule of topics here, and simply click on the zoom link at 12:25 to join.

Rent our Space!

Our cozy & comfortable studio space is available for rent when we’re not using it. To learn more about renting, click here.

Black Lives Matter

On our website, we will be doing our best to post up-to-date links, information, and donation options for supporting people of colour. We aim to amplify black voices and will be using this page to do so. Please read through the information below to learn more about disparities in healthcare and more specifically how birthing spaces affect black people and their babies and families. Then, donate through the numerous organizations we’ve linked to below and pledge to do more. Share this page to make it easy for your friends to learn more, do more, and take the burden off of the BIPOC people in your lives from having to explain their experiences.

Birth work is political & racial disparities in healthcare exist and are prevalent today. Black women experience added barriers and obstacles to accessing healthcare, prenatal care, and end up with worse outcomes.

One of the reasons that racism persists in Canada is because our commitment to the perception of racial tolerance and harmony seems to be prized above the actual lived experiences of people.

-Author Robyn Maynard on Anti-Black Racism, Misogyny, and Policing in Canada